Wisdom

Many years ago I was given some wise advice by a seasoned elderly lady. She said 'don't believe all you see, and only believe half of what you hear!' People spin their own stories to suit their own purposes. There are always hidden motives underneath. In difficult relationships, especially in church situations it is wise to give time to let opinions cool down, and let some water to go under the bridge. More damage can be done by being hasty. We usually think 'we' are right. And we may well be! But we can also be proud of 'being right' and approach a situation in the wrong attitude. There is always another side to the story and it is important that we only speak the truth in love. And sometimes don't speak at all unless it is in our power to change things.
'Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways acknowledge him, and He will make your paths straight'. Prov 3:5